Jul102010
Forgiveness is an interesting subject. There are two basic realms where forgiveness is essential. In relationships between people, one will find that at times it is required to seek or give forgiveness. In one’s relationship to the Lord God, sin will occasionally become a problem (Rom. 3:10, 23). Forgiveness from God is the only way to avoid sin’s consequences (Rom. 6:23, Jas. 1:15).
When a person needs another person to forgive him/her, it is easy to rationalize that the offended person should give forgiveness. Human nature is such that we minimize our own transgressions as “minor,” but if we are the wronged party things are different! That person who treated us wrong or did something bad needs to be taught a lesson. The Scriptures are filled with admonitions to forgive one another (Mt. 6:14, 15; 18:21, 22; 2 Cor. 2:10; Eph. 4:32; Col. 3:13). Some erroneously believe that forgiveness must be earned. It is true that one can ask for forgiveness from another, but it must be given. Withholding forgiveness is unscriptural.
Forgiveness, by nature, means to restore a relationship. One has not forgiven someone if they hold animosity toward the individual. Forgiveness is difficult as long as one is centering his or her thoughts upon self. Forgiveness is made easier when one recalls that each of us is a guilty sinner, and Christ has been gracious toward us. So likewise forgiveness should be extended to others (Eph. 4:32). It should be noted that Christ forgave us before we asked for it. Therefore, we should forgive others even if they do not ask us too.
Believers sometimes struggle with accepting that their sins are completely forgiven. The Scriptures are filled with passages that state that Christians are forgiven by God’s grace (Rom. 4:7; Eph. 1:7; Col. 1:14; 2:13; 1 John 1:9; 2:12). God is perfect. His work is perfect (Deut. 32:4). His ways are perfect (Psa. 18:30). Therefore, His forgiveness is perfect as well.
As children of God, we should follow God’s admonitions. We should completely forgive others. We should refuse to hold grudges (Jas. 5:9). We must accept that the Lord has totally forgiven our sins. We need to walk in a spirit of forgiveness!